Khinkaid wrote:
I do not want to bash on Kessman, but since he has been in Provo he has done some things that made it apparent that playing football was all about him and had very little to do with the team. Exhibit A is his reaction when he found himself redshirting. While he is talented I would take any of the guys that are starting on our team as receivers over him and a year of learning and developement would have done him good. Now, instead of living up to his commitments he wants to transfer. The worse part about this is that he is being supported in this by someone who should be a bit more adult and mature in his decission making.
Who would that supportive adult be? His Dad? An anonymous internet poster? Bronco? Alan Colmes?

(sorry had to throw a bleeding heart in there) His Bishop? An older teammate? Ben Olsen?

Perhaps you have more knowledge regarding to whom this youngman turns for counsel if he does so at all.
Don't assume that staying at BYU is the best choice. That is not necessarily the case for every player for any number of reasons - inability to abide by the Honor Code, better playing opportunity elsewhere, "team chemistry", attitude, financial reasons, or other personal reasons.
Looking back at my first year at BYU (Deseret Towers - V Hall), probably at least half of the guys on my floor broke the Honor Code in some manner and many of them were RMs. Being away from home for the first time, I did my share of pushing the limits, but like most I matured and grew to appreciate the Honor Code and my ability to live it.
Perhaps it is time to be less judgemental and save that job for those with the proper stewardship.