Real.Men.Wear.Blue wrote:
We don't have church basketball in my stake--and haven't had it for years--for that very reason.
We don't have it in mine either because of all the fights and some bishop decided to flagrantly foul someone resulting in a broken nose and a bloody mess.
It's funny too because I open the gym up on Thursday for ball. The only ones that show up to play aren't members of the church. I'm the only white dude. Anytime someone has a question as to why there are "suspicious" looking people in the church they seek out the only white dude and ask, "Are you the priesthood authority here?" Why can't the guy with the pony tail be the priesthood authority? Or what about the black guy with a nice clean hair cut? We're all in shorts and t-shirts.
Not only that, but no one in the ward wants to come play because all the "scary" people are there. I never had a problem with any of the "scary" people until one day a ward memeber shows up and what does he do? He starts a fight! I had to kick my own ward memeber out of the church!
I don't know what it is but too many Mormons struggle with just playing a friendly game of basketball. I'm all for competitive sport, but it's just for fun. There are no salaries, no awards, and our wives don't even show up to watch us because they get too embarrassed by our behavior.